HIV Outing of Gay Porn Star

Mason Wyler, a gay porn star, recently revealed on his blog that he is HIV positive. That fact alone is enough to elicit my sympathy, but it’s the circumstances of his disclosure that disturb me the most.

For the uninitiated (and I have to confess, I was until I was told about his disclosure), Wyler is a sexy 20-something self-described “gay sex addict” (site NSFW, in other words not suitable for work) working in the porn industry since 2005.

By all outward appearances, he seems to be successful at his chosen profession. The pay porn site MasonWyler.com (site NSFW) is dedicated to his work and WylerNation.com (site NSFW) is his personal blog.

Here’s an excerpt of his blog post on August 19:

“I spent the last few months waiting for the right time to tell you but it turns out that there is no right time…people have already begun to talk so I might as well just tell you now. I tested positive. I have only myself to blame. I have HIV and it kind of sucks.”

Wyler felt obliged to write another post on August 20:

“Since testing positive in May, I have hooked up with a total of three people and they were all HIV positive themselves. Seriously. I have not gone around f**king, barebacking, or infecting HIV negative people. I am a sex fiend. I am NOT a monster. So to the people who are spreading rumors that I have done otherwise, STOP.”

It wasn’t obvious to me exactly what Wyler was referring to about rumors, but then I ran across this post at the LGBT blog Queerty and it explained quite a bit.

According to Queerty, Wyler’s self disclosure of his HIV-positive status came only after several preceding events, including speculation as to why he had decided in July to switch to masturbation-only work, followed by a former roommate (also a porn star) alleging on a blog and tweeting that Wyler was “spreading disease,” followed by a post on August 19 on the gay porn blog GayPornGossip.com (site NSFW) outing Wyler as HIV positive.

It appears it was the GayPornGossip.com outing that pushed Wyler to self disclose. The gist of the GayPornGossip.com post is Wyler allegedly was behaving irresponsibly as a person living with HIV, so the site was taking matters into its own hands to stop him from harming others. As evidence, the post cites an alleged profile of Wyler on the gay personals site Adam4Adam that lists his HIV status as negative.

Two prominent gay porn blogs, TheSword.com and QueerClick.com, reacted negatively to the outing of Wyler’s HIV-positive status.

TheSword.com (site NSFW) posted this:

“In short, there is no moral or journalistic value in reporting on anyone’s private, personal health issues unless they choose to come
forward, which Mason has today … Why [GayPornGossip.com] chose to reveal Mason’s status today is beyond all logical reasoning.”

QueerClick.com (site NSFW) posted this:

“What’s left us scratching our heads though is the reason [GayPornGossip.com] gave for choosing to disclose Wyler’s HIV status in the first place: because Wyler didn’t ‘back away from his previous ‘lifestyle’… and other necessary things’? Like changing the status on his Adam4Adam profile? Sounds pretty moralistic and judgmental.”

There are other details to this story that I am choosing not to explore. Those details (allegations of barebacking on and off camera, allegations as to Wyler’s credibility because in 2008 he said he was raped, etc.) are beside the point I care about most.

Many blogs and bloggers, LGBT and otherwise, have been gaining credibility as not only sources for opinion but as sources for news. When things like this occur, it’s a reminder that many other blogs and bloggers, LGBT and otherwise, still have a long way to go.

Credible news outlets have journalistic standards. On this story, GayPornGossip.com didn’t pass the test. Wyler’s HIV status was his to reveal publicly, or not. It was not up to GayPornGossip.com to decide Wyler should come out publicly as HIV positive, no matter what good they thought would come from it.

UPDATE: Click here to read Wyler’s interview with Advocate.com about the reactions to his HIV disclosure.

4 Responses

  1. There are other details to this story that I am choosing not to explore.

    Too bad you’re not; this story also speaks to many other issues; ffrom people acting irresponsiblly when it comes to sex , to gay on gay hate, to people (overzealous fanatics) spreading gossip and innuendo just for the sake of being obescient to a gay porn actor.

  2. My best friend he died in HIV last year and I just feel so saad about loosing him, he was gay and a proud over his sexuality and I just hope that there will be a cure.
    even if there are great medicine today they still have so faar to go.
    Great blogg and informative.

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